I remember asking myself this question over and over again. It’s one that can make you feel like a complete fashion failure, even if you’re wearing “all the right things“.
After I left my corporate job to be a stay-at-home mom of triplets, I had my first major identity crisis. Suddenly, I had no idea what to wear, what I liked, or who I was. The only casual clothes I owned were a few tees, a couple of chinos, and some sneakers. Not even a pair of jeans!! And I didn’t have the time, money, or energy to start a new wardrobe, so I limped along with what little I had.
Five kids and four years later, we moved across the country. At the same time, clothing silhouettes were changing drastically and that really sent me into a fashion tailspin. Trying to regain control, I tried on other women’s styles, fell for all the trends, and…felt like an imposter.